Questions to ask to a Prospective Marriage Partner

Extended Family

  • What do you think parents/extended family's role should be in making important decisions: wedding planning, child rearing, vacations, where you will live?
  • What do you do if there is a conflict between your spouse and your family?
  • Are you comfortable living with extended family, particularly as they age? Are other accomodations possible?
  • How much time do you anticipate spending with your extended family, in person or by phone?
  • Would you describe the character of your family members?
  • What have you learned from observing your family that you do or do not want to incorporate into your marriage?