Questions to ask to a Prospective Marriage Partner
Children
- How many children do you want to have?
- When do you think you'll be ready to have children?
- How will you distribute responsibility for child rearing? Nappy changing?
- What do you think it is important to teach children?
- What is your view on raising children? Do you spank?
- To what extent would you be willing to utilize family members, friends, baby sitters or day are to watch your children?
- How will you ensure your children have a good Islamic education?
- What would you do if you could not have children?
- Do you want your children to grow up bilingual? In what languages?
Last Names
- Should the wife change her last name?
- What last name should the children carry?